How To Start Talking To A Girl

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How To Start Talking To A Girl
What is the number one problem guys deal with when they want to approach a girl they find appealing? It is of course, "what the heck do I say to her." What you say when you first approach will make or break your pickup. What you say should be an ideal balance of flirtiness, charm, humor, intelligence, and should open the door for further conversation while making the girl comfortable in speaking with you. Wow! No surprise most guys have problems getting girls. So what is the very best method to begin a conversation with a woman?

Pickup lines do not work!

A pickup line is definitely not the greatest method. Pickup lines do not work. Every half-wit knows that. Not only do they not work, they are a bright neon sign stamped on your forehead marketing your absence of imagination, cleverness, and screams BORING to girls. Ask any girl if they prefer a handsome boring man or an ordinary looking fun man and you will be pleasantly surprised at the response.

Girls look for VALUE in guys. Not power, looks, or chest/bicep size. For the purposes of approaching girls, VALUE is anything that catches the woman's interest. And what catches a girl's interest is something that is special, intriguing, and something out of the ordinary.

Her life is presently full of boring guys and conditions and if someone like you comes along and provides value to her otherwise dull existence, you have value in her eyes. You are pretty much in and you are free to release your charm once she sees you have value.

So what is the very best method to start a conversation with a woman?

The very best method to start a conversation with a woman is with the pickup artist technique called opinion openers. An opinion opener is when you ask a woman her opinion or advise on some issue. You are basically asking for the woman's help.

On a psychological by-note, feeling helpful and needed is among the essentials of human life. Not only do humans like to be asked for their help and advise on something, they need it and crave it since it fills one of the essential needs of life. This is among the secret psychological techniques pickup artists use to seduce gorgeous girls.

Give me an example of an opinion opener.

Among the very best and most successful opinion openers is the "I'm doing research" opener. A couple of examples are:

Hey, I have a website called attractwomenreport and I'm writing an article called, "What beautiful girls find appealing in guys." What's your take on this subject?

Hey, can you help me out real fast? I'm doing my college thesis on the attraction elements in between girls and guys. What do you look for in guys?

Hey, I'm creating an article about what turns off girls. Can you give me some input ?

Besides the "I'm doing research" opener, there are many different opinion openers you can use and you can and really should make up your very own as the circumstance directs. Every girl and situation is different so you must use your common sense and imagination to create different methods to ask for help for various circumstances.

Opinion openers is a very effective technique that uses a number of psychological techniques in order to get girls to open up and speak with you without it being a straight-out pickup. Of course, you can have the finest opening line in the world but it means absolutely nothing without the right delivery.

The opinion opener is only one part of the formula though ...

Remember, communication is 55 % visual, 38 % vocal, and just 7 % words. So if your delivery blows, whatever you say doesn't really matter. If you combine good delivery and self-confidence with the above "I'm doing research" opener, beautiful women will take numbers and wait in line to get an opportunity to speak to you.